As we grow, we tend to have our very own perspective driven by our interests. People are different because of their traits, looks and personalities. We also have reasons why we’re doing something. Either it is defined or undefined. My perspective had varied so much throughout the 19years I’ve lived. Along with the changes of perspective, my attitude also changed bit by bit. I know people will eventually say that I changed for bad, mostly but truthfully, I never felt that way. Of course I don’t feel that I’m changing for any good. It’s just that, I’m changing to suit the inner me more. There’s nothing good or bad about it. I felt much better, although some might hurt because of the changes. O well, we hurt people’s feeling every time. And they hurt ours as well. So, that is a win-win situation for me. Accept the truth.
I never call myself as a saint just because I wrote things the way I look at it. But really, people will eventually make you win the situation because they read yours. They didn’t read on the other side. And I am no wanting people to make me look like I’m winning the situation just because you read mine. And I shan’t ask you to read the other side’s thought. Well, practically because they didn’t have any open sites telling about them. LOL. Just only laugh if you got that. Okay no, just giggle. You sounded scary when you laugh.
For me, growth will only make you better, only if you feel better about it. Don’t mind what others say about you. They don’t practically feel what you feel. They only wanted to make you follow the system that says you should do only this to become better, where we as a human have a very different ways on nurturing it.
Then again, how can I actually implement these thoughts on my children? Because I really don’t want them to feel miserable and tersepit like I was having now. They shall be free on expressing themselves, with a little guide from me from the early years. I believe that everyone will know how to behave, how to control themselves, when the time comes. We’ll just have to wait. Not everyone can make it fast. There are yin and yang, there are good and bad, and there must be fast and slow. The point is, try accepting the person the way it was. Whether they changed or not, that is up to them. It is their body, it is their mind, it is their thought, it is their perspectives. No one else have any rights on it, except Allah SWT and the person himself. I won’t use the phrase ‘Let them be them’ . Too lame for me.